It is imperative to first define what is the “Crazy Eyes”, this eyes are the most deceiving attribute that can be apart of any male or female. (mostly females, well because many are just plan crazy). In the beginning of a relationship when you take that first look into a persons eyes and you think that you see everything is going to go great with this girl, but you need to look again into the eyes many men make the mistake and do not take that extra second to look into her eyes. In that second glance you could see the  ”crazy eyes” it is impossible to describe them because it is just a gut reaction that you will have. Warning if you see them DO NOT ignore them do not make an excuse like “Oh she is so great, what pretty eyes she has.” If you do then just wait not on the second, maybe not even on the thrid date the crazy will eventually come out, and when it does good luck.

Now that I have cleared up the definition, let me tell you story. Let me bring you all the way back to February 2007 it was a brisk night out and I decided to go grab so coffee at one of the area Starbucks. I grabbed my Regular Coffee that I will usually get and proceeded to go over to a table. On my way over I looked around a got a good scope on the are seeing if there were anybody that i might be interested in, One happened to catch my eye, so I grab a chair with in her hearing range and made a fake phone call to a friend, and made sure that she heard my conversation, I made it clear that I would save them a seat. I then hung up, and looked around, as if I’m looking for any extra seats. I then got up and walked over to her table and asked her if anybody was sitting here and could I borrow the chair, she said “sure you can” I then proceed to sit down in the chair I just asked for, and with that I was in. We started talking for a while but did not want to over stay my welcome, just get her number and go. After about fifteen minutes, I gotten her number and as she gave it to me I looked into here eyes, and I saw something at the time I was young and stupid and could not put my hand on what was not right. This should have been HUGE stop sign…but I proceeded to call her two days later.

So I set up the first date at a nice restaurant and everything went great. Had great conversations, and it seemed to go really well. She was a year older than me, but that was cool with me and she also had her own place. So after drove her back home walked her to the door and look again into her eyes and once again saw something that was just not right. also right next to her door there was a Pale filled with what at the time I though was rock, it just popped up in my mind and just thought it was interesting and wanted to know what was in this bucket.

The second date also went great, but i still ignored all the signs that were being thrown at me, but soon the Crazy would come out.

So the third date was going to be at her house she was making us dinner. When I went to the door and walked in I forgot to check and see what was in the bucket. We sat and had a great dinner she made Chicken Parm and it was pretty good we then went to the couch and started to watch a movie (But not really wink wink). I then got up and used the bathroom and after I washed my hand i stepped and heard a crunch I look down and to my amazement it was an acorn, It was very odd for an acorn to not only bathroom floor, but at the time there was snow on the ground so  I did not know where it had come from. I then gave my self a pep talk and went back to the couch. About an hour late she said “Oh you have to meet Ricky” and off she went into her room. My thoughts were a small dog, maybe a bird, but when she returned she had a SQUIRREL. I was in complete shock out walks this squirrel that not only has a collar on it but a Sweater also. I just then came to realize that I am in trouble. I complete ignored all of the signs, and realize that the thing  that I though was different was really the Crazy Eyes.

As you might thing think just continued to get crazier and crazier with different outfits. So I had to end it before she got any wrong ideas. So I made the phone call and called it off.

Let my Real life Experience give you the knowledge so that you do not succumb to the Crazy Eyes.

In my real life, I believe that it is near impossible for a long distance relationship to work out. Yes there are special circumstances where it can work, but we are talking real life here folks it most likely will end with one two in the relationship just growing away from the relationship. What I proposed for my friend was that he needs to set an ultimatum on this relationship. I told him that you need to set a date and certain things that need to take place so that you would able to either make the best of the relationship or end it without any heartbreak. My guidelines were that he should tell her that six months from now if we are not re united then it will be the end of the relationship.

Since this ultimatum was set in stone with my friend and his significant other there has seemed to be a whole new rebirth in the relationship. My friend has started back up a work again but it is not enough to get him out of his house. The remarkable thing is that his girlfriend has grown even closer with my him. They have also dabbled with the idea a getting a place together so that they could be closer. The catch is that my friend want her to go back to school and he tied that into the ultimatum that she must go back to school or at the end of the six months it will have to end. Now there lied a problem of course since the next semester was 8 months away from the set date they had.

My advice was just go with the flow with the relationship take things one step at a time. If thing are still good in six months and she has the will to go back to school then keep her around. He can’t put anymore added pressure to a long distance relationship then there already was.

One really has to realize that relationship can not have a label put onto them like open, and long distance. In real life a relationship is just as it is nothing else it does not matter what label you put onto it, you are sharing your heart and mind with another human being that it’s the biggest constitution to your relationship. In the real life Love is not a feeling…It is an ability.

That is why I am Pete in Real Life